Two long-time friends visited me lately and I found them to be a sweet gift from God. First Stefanie came from a conference in Michigan. She had planned the trip to include Indianapolis, because she wanted to be here for Bill’s birthday on June 17. But she did not change her time frame after Bill moved onto Heaven. Her previous visits with us always included a walk with Bill, playing ping pong, and arm wrestling. The latter contests Bill won, and I don’t think she faked her loss. Stefanie told Bill she would be in better shape next time. Because of their good connection, I wondered how we would spend our time together.
Stefanie and I did walk together, surprising me with enough energy to make it around the block using my cane. We also went to a park for a sack lunch and a trail through the woods. She had work to send back to the university in New Zealand, so that gave me time for reading.
One special treat involved Stefanie driving us for a weekend in Terre Haute and Brazil, Indiana– visits with friends from our former days, including Sunday worship at World Gospel Church. Members, surprised to see us, gave many hugs and brief chats to catch up with our lives. Eating with friends added more conversations, showing we are still connected.
With Stefanie still here, Linda arrived for a two-day visit on the way from her 50th Reunion at Asbury College and back home in Wisconsin. I knew Linda and Stefanie would connect well, because both are verbal about their testimony, reciting Bible verses relevant to their spiritual journeys. I admit that’s also convicting. Mealtimes lasted longer than usual due to times of sharing our lives. It also gave me opportunity to talk about Bill, caregiving, and his last days on earth. Both friends found my ramblings of interest as they asked questions.
Yes, I am grateful for friendships that last throughout the years. They are gifts of faith from my Lord. A favorite Bible verse comes to mind, and it’s my way of expressing connection with Jesus. He told His disciples (and us): “I have called you friends” (John 15:15).
Ann Coker 